This afternoon I ate out for lunch before therapy and developed a two-hour crush on the host at the restaurant. Honestly, he wasn’t really my type–high-water pants, mustache, probably patchouli for deodorant. I mean, I didn’t get close enough to know for sure. But basically, he was a hippy–or hipster–I really don’t know the difference. Plus, it’s so hard these days to tell if someone is gay or not. Once when I was with my aunt at a department store, a hot young number offered to clean our glasses, and I could have sworn he was hitting on me. But short of someone sticking their hand down my pants, I never like to assume. He could have just been on commission.
Anyway, the host at the restaurant. I told my therapist about him and said, “Oh my god, I just realized he had a braided belt on,” and my therapist said, “Like a leather one–from the nineties?”
“Yes, how awful. How did I overlook that?”
“You were just horny,” she said.
Fair enough.
Of course, we talked about other things too, like people pleasing. My therapist said the problem with people pleasing is that it makes us externally focused. What will she say? What will they think? But she said we should ideally be internally focused, which simply means being authentic and true to our own values and morals rather than someone else’s. In short, we should be true to ourselves.
This evening I met my friend CJ out of town for dinner. We weren’t technically celebrating my birthday (which is next week), but she said we were, so woowho! I’m all for early and prolonged celebrations. As my friend Marla says, “You get one day a year all to yourself, you might as well make it count.” Anyway, after eating in Rogers, we headed toward Fayetteville to see a show at Theater Squared. Since we arrived early (a first for me), we decided to go for a walk along Dickson Street, and when we passed Condom Sense, CJ said, “Have you ever been in there?”
“Never,” I said.
Grabbing my arm, she said, “Let’s go!”
Well, right off the bat, the little lady behind the counter told me a sex joke, something to do with the penis jewelry around her neck that could point up or down. She kept playing with it like a see-saw. Well, I’ve been in a sex shop before, but I’m always a skosh uncomfortable. So I just glanced at all the dildos–don’t mind me–and the lady said, “There’s more in the back room!”
Oh, this back room?
Y’all, there was a penis cage. I sort of thought it was like a chastity belt, but honestly didn’t know what it was for. It just looked like a penis-shaped cage with a little lock on it, something you might put on your luggage to feel safe. You know, protect the family jewels. Well, I’m a curious person, so I asked the lady behind the counter, “What about the cock cage?” Then she came down from her perch behind the counter, not even joking, and said, “Which one?” Then she explained that a cock cage is a training device, almost like something you’d put on your kid’s bicycle. And then–and then–she started pointing her finger at me, and said, “You’re the slave. I’M THE MASTER. As long as this is on your cock, you can’t get an erection. You only get a hard-on when I SAY.”
I mean, I grew up in church. How do you respond to that? Uh–yes, ma’am? No, thank you?
Honestly, I was itching to get out of the store because the show was about to start, and I can only listen to a woman my mother’s age talk about erections for so long. But before CJ and I could get out the door, the lady started talking to us about lubes–water-based, oil-based, and silicone. Just imagine this short woman with long hair of indeterminate color talking with a smoker’s voice, pointing her finger at you kind of angrily, and saying, “I’ve been having sex since before anybody knew what sex was. Sure, water-based lubes are better than spit, but it’s nothing like this silicone.”
Dear god, make it stop.
I kept thinking she was going to say, “I used to walk ten miles uphill in the snow to have sex,” but instead she pumped some of the lube on my fingers and then CJ’s fingers. Well, what do you do? So we just stood there, rubbing our fingers together, rubbing our fingers together, as the lady kept talking. I thought, Lady, I’m gay. That’s enough about your vagina. Although, yes–I guess it is cute that you call it Fluffy. Much less threatening that way.
“Boy, CJ, look at the time. The show starts in ten minutes!”
“Okay, Marcus. Let’s go.”
Then the lady said, “Pardon the expression, but come again.”
You can’t make this up.
Okay, I didn’t mean for this blog to be about my trip to the sex shop. But really, how do you beat that? (No pun intended.) Seriously, CJ and I had a great time at the show, a musical called Fun Home. But even a production about a singing lesbian who grows up with a closeted father who works at a funeral (fun) home doesn’t really top a lube-hawking grandma with a sterling silver see-saw penis around her neck. But I suppose few things would.
Currently I’m at CJ’s, spending the night on her farm. I’m inside, but the air outside is the coolest it’s been all summer. The full moon is shining bright in the sky, like a spotlight announcing fall’s arrival. Earlier CJ and I went for a walk down her dirt road, and her three dogs and one of her cats followed along. When we got back, we pulled some chairs off her back porch and into the yard, sat under the moon, and traded stories. CJ said I should have hit on the hippy at the restaurant. “What would he have done?” she said.
Now CJ is in bed. The house is quiet, and the world is still. I can hear crickets outside the door, maybe a neighbor’s dog barking. Across the room there are several five-gallon buckets of dehydrated food. CJ said she bought them cheap from a friend who’s a “prepper,” apparently a person who stockpiles food, guns, and whatever for the end of the world. CJ plans to resale them, but considering each bucket contains 275 meals, if something drastic were to happen tonight, CJ and I should be fine for roughly a year and a half.
So don’t worry about us.
When CJ told me about “preppers,” I thought it was a sex thing, but–then again–it’s been that sort of day. Jokes aside, I thought, That’s so bizarre. Who lives like that? Honestly, it’s the same thing I thought when I saw some of the items in the sex store. I imagine some people reading this blog may find it odd, offensive, too–uh–personal. But it was my day, and, as my grandpa used to say, “It’s a big old world.” Ultimately, I’m glad I live in a time and place where I can talk to my therapist (or the internet) about a hot hippy host, where women who voted for JFK can sell condoms to college students, and where singing lesbians can take the stage. Personally, I don’t want to hoard dehydrated food or put a cage on my penis, but I’m thrilled to be in a world where other people can if they want to. So as soon as I hit publish, I’m going back out on the porch, looking at the moon, and getting some fresh, country air. I suppose that’s all any of us really want–to breathe deep, to breathe true to ourselves, whatever that means.
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Sometimes we move with grace and sometimes we move with struggle. But at some point, standing still is no longer good enough.
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Sure, we forget it plenty of times, but on the inside we’re all shining. This is what gives me hope, knowing that we are all radiant.
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Whereas I've always pictured patience as a sweet, smiling, long-haired lady in a white dress, I'm coming to see her as a frumpy, worn-out old broad with three chins. You know--sturdy--someone who's been through the ringer and lived to tell about it.
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Solid help and solid hope are quite the same thing.
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Just as there’s day and night literally, there’s also day and night emotionally. Like the sun, one minute we’re up, the next minute we’re down. Our perspectives change constantly. There’s nothing wrong with this. The constellations get turned around once a day, so why can’t you and I? Under heaven, there’s room enough for everything–the sun, the moon and stars, and all our emotions. Yes, the universe–our home–is large enough to hold every bit of us.
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None of us is ever really lost. At least we're never really alone. For always there is someone to help point your ship in the right direction, someone who sees you when you can't see yourself.
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Our struggles unearth our strengths.
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As taught in the story of the phoenix, a new life doesn't come without the old one first being burned away.
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Along the way you’ll find yourself, and that’s the main thing, the only thing there really is to find.
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We are surrounded by the light.
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What are you really running away from?
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"Why should anyone be embarrassed about the truth?"
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There’s nothing wrong with taking a damn nap.
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You've really got to believe in yourself and what you're doing. Again, it comes down to integrity and making something solid of yourself, something that's so well-built on the inside that it can handle any storm.
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No good story ever ends.
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Both sunshine and rain are required for growth.
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Life doesn’t need us to boss it around.
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Perhaps this is what bravery really is--simply having run out of better options, being so totally frustrated by the outside world that all you can do is go within.
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Being scared isn’t always an invitation to run away. More often than not, it’s an invitation to grow a pair and run toward.
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"Obviously, God's capable of a lot. Just look around."
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You really do belong here.
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It’s okay to ask for help.
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Boundaries aren’t something you knock out of the park every time.
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It's the holes or the spaces in our lives that give us room to breathe and room to rest in, room to contain both good and bad days, and--when the time is right--room for something else to come along.
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Your story isn’t about your physical challenges.
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Our burdens are lighter when we share them.
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In other words, there's always SOMETHING else to improve or work on. Therefore, striving for perfection is not only frustrating, it's also technically impossible.
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Who’s to say that one experience is better than another?
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You can be weird here. You can be yourself.
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We are all connected in a great mystery and made of the same strong stuff.
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There’s no such thing as a small action. There’s no such thing as small progress.
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You know when someone crosses a line. You may not want to admit it, but you know.
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Rejecting yourself is what really hurts.
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We may never be done, but that doesn't mean we'll never be complete. And surely we are complete right here, right now, and surely there is space enough for the full moon, for you and for me, and all our possibilities.
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Your life is a mystery. But you can relax. It’s not your job to solve it.
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Even if you can't be anything you want to be, you can absolutely be who you were meant to be. Don't let anyone else tell you differently.
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"No one's story should end on the ground."
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No one dances completely alone.
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Give yourself an abundance of grace.
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"It's really good news to find out that the world isn't as scary as you thought it was."
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Our world is magical, a mysterious place where everything somehow works together, where nothing and no one is without influence, where all things great and small make a difference.
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Give yourself a break.
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Just because your face is nice to look at doesn’t mean you don’t have a heart that’s capable of being broken. These things happen to humans, and there isn’t a one of us who isn’t human.
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Bodies are so mysterious, much more complicated than car doors. They take more patience to understand and work with. They require more than a couple hours to repair.
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Take your challenges and turn them into the source of your strengths.
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Love is all around us.
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Even a twisted tree grows tall and strong.
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All things become ripe when they’re ready.
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Sometimes the best you can do is metaphorically sit you ego down, look it square in the eye, and say, “Would you shut the fuck up already?”
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If you want to become who you were meant to be, it's absolutely necessary to shed your old skin. Sure it might be sad to say goodbye--to your old phone, to your old beliefs, anything that helped get you this far--but you've got to let go in order to make room for something new.
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You can't build a house, much less a life, from the outside-in. Rather, if you want something that's going to last, you have to start on the inside and work your way out, no matter how long it takes and how difficult it is.
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When you hide your hurt, you can’t help but pass it on. It ends up seeping, sometimes exploding out.
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One day a change will come.
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When we expect great things, we see great things.
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Our shoulders weren’t meant to carry the weight of the world.
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We all need to feel alive.
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No one is immune from life’s challenges.
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Damn if good news doesn't travel the slowest.
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The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step. And whereas it's just a single step, it's a really important one.
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If you want to find a problem, you will.
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It’s enough just to be here.
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Sometimes you have to go back before you can go forward.
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Freedom lies on the other side of everything you're afraid of.
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Whatever needs to happen, happens.
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"Miracles happen."
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Getting comfortable in your own skin takes time.
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Go easier on yourself.
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It takes forty years in the desert for seas to part.
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Sometimes you have to give up wanting something before you can have it.
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Healing requires letting go of that thing you can’t let go of.
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We always have more support than we realize.
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Confidence takes what you have and amplifies it. Confidence makes anyone sexy.
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You can’t change what happened, but you can change the story you tell yourself about it.
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Nothing was made to last forever.
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In this moment, we are all okay.
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It’s not where you are, it’s whom you are there with.
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Aren’t you perfect just the way you are?
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More often than not, the truth is a monster. It gets in your face and makes you get honest. Sometimes the truth separates you from people you care about, if for no other reason than to bring you closer to yourself.
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"You can't change your age, but you can change what your age means to you."
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We can hang on and put everything safely in its place, and then at some point, we’re forced to let go.
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You can rise above. You can walk on water.
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Life is better when we're not in control. When we mentally leave room for anything to happen, anything can.
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For all of the things life takes away, it gives so much more in return. Whether we realize it or not, there’s always grace available.
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You’re exactly where you need to be.
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I believe that God is moving small universes to communicate with me and with all of us, answering prayers and sending signs in unplanned moments, the touch of a friend's hand, and the very air we breathe.
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Every stress and trauma in your life is written somewhere in your body.
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"No one comes into this life knowing how to dance, always moving with grace."
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Some things simply take time and often more than one trip to the hardware store.
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You can be more discriminating.
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Pressure, it seems, is necessary to positive internal change. After all, lumps of coal don't shine on their own.
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Storms don’t define us, they refine us.
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All emotions are useful.
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Patting yourself on the back is better than beating yourself over the head.
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I don't think anyone came to this planet in order to get it right the first time. What would be the point?
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There's a wisdom underneath everything that moves us and even the planets at its own infallible pace. We forget that we too are like the planets, part of a larger universe that is always proceeding one step at time, never in the wrong place, everything always right where it belongs.
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For me, it's important to hang on to this idea that no matter how bad they are, your circumstances can turn around, to believe that if an elephant can show up in your life, it can also disappear, to believe that just as the universe full of big problems, it is also full of big answers.
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Boundaries are about starting small, enjoying initial successes, and practicing until you get your relationships like you want them.
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"The truth is right in front of you."
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You absolutely have to be vulnerable and state what you want.
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Growth and getting far in life have nothing to do with where you’re physically standing.
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Sometimes life can really kick you in the balls and make you drop to your knees.
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If anything is ever going to change for the better, the truth has to come first.
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A break is no small thing to give yourself.
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We’re all made of the same stuff.
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If another's perspective, another's story about you is kinder than the one you're telling yourself, surely that's a story worth listening to.
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You can’t play small forever.
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The clearer you see what's going on inside of you, the clearer you see what's going on outside of you. It's that simple.
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"Authenticity is worth all the hard work. Being real is its own reward."
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A storm can leave your life just as quickly as it enters it.
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Normal people don’t walk on water.
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A mantra: Not an asshole, not a doormat.
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"It's never a minor thing to take better care of yourself."
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A friend’s laughter takes us backward and carries us forward simultaneously.
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All great heroes, at some point, surrender to the unknown.
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You can’t pick and choose what you receive from life, and you can’t always accurately label something as bad.
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It's enough to sit in, and sometimes drag ass through, the mystery.
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One thing finishes, another starts. Things happen when they happen.
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All the while, we imagine things should be different than they are, but life persists the way it is.
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We follow the mystery, never knowing what’s next.
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Suddenly the sun breaks through the clouds. A dove appears--the storm is over.
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And God knows you don't make everyone else happy. But this is no reason to quit or be discouraged, since doing what you love and feel called to do is never--never--about gaining acceptance from others.
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Allowing someone else to put you down or discourage your dreams is, quite frankly, anything but self-care.
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We're allowed to relabel and remake ourselves.
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The symbols that fascinate us are meant to transform us.
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Help is always on the way.
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Love stands at the front door and says, “You don’t have to change a thing about yourself to come inside.”
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All things are moving as they should.
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"Sure, people change, but love doesn't."
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Any mundane thing–an elevator ride!–can be turned into something joyous.
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"Not knowing what's going to happen next is part of the adventure."
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"Things that shine do better when they're scattered about."
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As the ocean of life changes, we must too.
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Each season has something to offer.
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There’s a power that comes when you meet life’s challenges head-on. Those are the times you breathe the deepest. Those are the times the waters come forth and your heart beats every bit as loud as the thunder claps. Those are the times you know more than ever—no matter what happens next—in this moment, you’re alive.
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If life can create a problem, it can also provide an answer.
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"Sickness and health come and go, just like everything else. It's just the way life is."
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Of all the broken things in your life, you’re not one of them–and you never have been.
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If you think only girls cry or that crying is inappropriate for some reason, fuck you. Some things are too damn heavy to hold on to forever.
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It’s hard to say where a kindness begins or ends.
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"When you’re authentic, your authenticity is enough. You don’t need to compare."
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Everything is progressing as it should.
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Rest gives us time to dream. One day, for certain, you’ll wake up. And you’ll be grateful for the time you rested, and you’ll be just as grateful that you’re different, far from the person who fell asleep.
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Life proceeds at its own pace.
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No emotion is ever truly buried.
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Nothing is set in stone here.
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So perhaps perfection has little to do with that which changes and everything to do with that which doesn't. For surely there is a still, small something inside each of us that never changes, something that is timeless and untouchable, something inherently valuable and lovable--something perfect.
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Abundance comes in many forms.
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Healing is never a straight line.
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Things are only important because we think they are.
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For I am a universe–large–like you are, and there is room here for all that we contain. An ego, of course, is small, and it is disgusted and humiliated by the smallest of things. But a universe is bigger than that, much too big to judge itself or another, much too big to ever question how bright it is shining.
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The truth doesn’t suck.
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Transformation doesn’t have a drive thru window. It takes time to be born again.
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"Beating yourself up is a far cry from self-respect."
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All your scattered pieces want to come back home.
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Everything is all right and okay.
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"We all have inner wisdom. We all have true north."
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If you’re making yourself up to get someone else’s approval–stop it–because you can’t manipulate anyone into loving you. People either embrace you for who and what you are–or they don’t.
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Life is never just so. Honestly, it’s a big damn mess most of the time.
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Since one life touches another, we can never really say how far our influence goes. Truly, our story goes on and on in both directions. Truly, we are infinite.
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Nothing physical was ever meant to stay the same.
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if you're content with yourself and you're always with yourself, then what's the problem?
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Beautiful isn’t something that comes in a particular package. Beautiful is simply being yourself.
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"Kindness is never a small thing."
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Just because you can’t see it, doesn’t mean it’s not true.
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Some days, most days, are a mixed bag. We cry, we laugh, we quit, we start again. That's life. In the process, we find out we're stronger than we thought we were, and perhaps this is healing.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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If you're not living a fully authentic life, a part of you will never be satisfied.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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It’s never too late to be your own friend.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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We don’t get to boss life around.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Anything and everything is possible.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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You can’t stuff down the truth—it always comes up.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
"The heart sings for its own reasons."
Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Abundance is a lot like gravity--it's everywhere.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Perfection is ever-elusive.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Answers come built-in. There are no "just problems."
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
"We were made to love without conditions. That's the packaging we were sent with."
Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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We think of hope as something pristine, but hope is haggard like we are.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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There’s nothing you can do to change the seasons or hurry them along.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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The deepest waters are the only ones capable of carrying you home.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Your emotions are tired of being ignored.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
"I believe we're all courageous, and I believe that no one is alone."
Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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You've got to believe that things can turn around, that even difficult situations--perhaps only difficult situations--can turn you into something magnificent.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Healing is like the internet at my parents’ house—it takes time.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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When the universe speaks—listen.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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There’s a lot of magic around you.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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It's never a small thing to open your home or heart to another person.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Better that you're true to yourself and the whole world be disappointed than to change who you are and the whole world be satisfied.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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There is a force, a momentum that dances with all of us, sometimes lifting us up in the air, sometimes bringing us back down in a great mystery of starts and stops.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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You have everything you need.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
"That love inside that shows up as joy or enthusiasm is your authentic self."
Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
"There are a lot of benefits to being right here, right now."
Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Stop buying your own bullshit.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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The more honest you are about what's actually happening inside of you, the happier you are.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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We can rewrite our stories if we want to.
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Quotes from CoCo (Marcus)
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Ultimately, we all have to get our validation from inside, not outside, ourselves.
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